While it is never compulsory to dress in theme, it's always a lot more fun when you do - ask anyone who does! Most of the themes are so darn tempting to dress up for, but ... that little bit of hesitancy about whether or not to dress for the theme is what we'd like to help you overcome. With almost all of our dress-up themes, it's possible to bring something theme-oriented.

Do you have to participate in swinging? Definitely not. We are glad to have you just attend. If you just love to dance, dress sexy and love flirting adults, are tolerant of others, and can be friendly when someone says no thanks, you are welcome.

Our members tend to be upscale, mature, fun loving, open-minded and curious. But most importantly, our members are our best assets and we want members of the club who are fun-loving and respectful of others. Membership is non-discriminating as to color, creed, social class, education or income

For single females, the sky is the limit. You have the opportunity for "the best of both worlds" and probably more single females would enjoy swinging if they were better exposed to it. For the single man, in order to be a success, you will need to be patient and easy-going. Socialize with the other members and remember that it is important to be warm, considerate, sensual and fun to be with. Remember all single males must be accompanied by a sponsoring couple or a single female.

Swinging is not for everyone. Often times the ladies will complain that their partner is too pushy and impatient and pressuring them to do things that they are not yet comfortable doing. We suggest that the first time you visit the Charm Club just relax and enjoy some of the recreational activities and watch some of the members. After you leave the Club talk to your partner and share your feelings. We're sure that you will feel just like we did when we were first introduced to the fabulous freedom we experience at the Club.Familiarizing yourself with this new found lifestyle is a process and giving your partner the freedom to explore the lifestyle at their own pace will be rewarding beyond your wildest dreams.

It may happen and if it does trust your instincts, the club is big enough for everyone. To be a member you must respect all others in the club and you may find that you like getting to know the acquaintance a whole lot better. But most importantly please be discreet.

The Club's Policy is to call a cab or Limo service for you. You may pick up your vehicle the following day. If a staff member determines that you have had too much to drink, they will stop serving you alcohol. The Charm Club Policy is to refrain from drinking and driving. We encourage everyone to have a designated driver.

There are several types of swinging or "lifestyles" as most veterans call it. We subscribe to the NASCA definition: Swinging is social and sexual intercourse with someone other than your mate, boyfriend or girlfriend, excepting the traditional one-on-one dating. It may be defined as recreational social sex. The activity may occur at a swing party, a couple-to-couple encounter, a liaison, or with a third person in a threesome. Though single men and women are involved, it is primarily an activity of couples.

Open swinging usually involves 2-3 couples or singles partying together and is very enjoyable for people who enjoy watching their mates with others.Closed swinging is when two couples exchange partners in different rooms or settings.Group swinging is just what it says, groups of couples and singles and is most enjoyable for those who enjoy exhibitionism and voyeurism all at the same time.Soft swinging is kissing, stroking, or having oral sex with a third or fourth person, literally everything other then intercourse.

People who come from all economic levels. Every job classification, all races and nationalities are represented, though the majority are Caucasian, middle to upper middle socio-economic class, and married. The Lifestyle (aka, Swingers) are married and single, tend to be adventuresome, emotionally mature and have excellent relationships with their mates and friends. Single people are involved in the Lifestyle but not to the extent of couples.

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